I absolutely love this
Giving time to myself
Listening to me
theres so much life going around
N it makes u understand how dissimilar yet similar we r
Your mind has the answers to everything
So long as you r quiet enough to listen
Not doing anything is as important or more important than doing something .
I guess I was inspired n I felt like doing a walk on my own today.
And as I did
I heard the answer.
I have been feeling out of equilibrium for half a year.
I walk n find myself tilting slanting like a sudden force exerting pressure on me anytime
Naturally I was worried
Why would this be?
Is there anything wrong with me?
I began to b worried n imagined all the wrong possibilities.
I knew I was under immense pressure
It was pressure from handling 2 kids wanting attention at the same time
It was also the pressure of my relationship with daddy stagnating n not being able to breakthrough
We were not able to gel , sync n reach a higher or deeper level
We had so much intense feelings that couldn’t dissipate or work out
Even as we managed to reach a consensus somewhat now
The wreck has been done
All the strong feelings have already been absorbed by the body n the body is feeling the pressure n trying to take care of it
In This morning walk , there’s this sudden understanding/realization —-I m beginning to better appreciate these surreal moments which tell—-of what is going on
The tilting/slanting/unbalanced feelings disclose the disequilibrium in my mind . How lacking one part of it is.
Making friends with daddy again sort of helped the equilibrium to go into better balance .
And getting back to work doing what I like also tilts me in the right direction
But I find myself in need of a deeper heal.
My realised that much as I felt he has hurt me
I also unwittingly bullied myself
I wasn’t aware enough to take full responsibility for my feelings
But more so
I felt a higher level of need within
Something like equanimity
So that in face of the ups n downs in life, I remain steadfast, at peace n so so calm
Yes I do feel better n peaceful now that we made peace
It makes me realise how important feelings of peace, contentment in marriage r to me
They r basically the key to my well being.
Yet Unlike the past, I m No longer elated at a make up
Or excited or full of expectations
The heart just feels so so tired out
It emphasizes the importance of self independence at heart
How one should strive to care for yourself
Address the lack within on one’s own.
I think this is the lesson that is in place for me .
Om ma ne pad me hum
I love it that I m learning to understand n to take care of myself