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韩剧

亲爱的沁芝

最近接触到另一部很不错的韩剧<拜托了,机长>。

全剧可在这里观赏。

http://www.asia-entertainment.net/search/label/拜託了機長%20Take%20Care%20of%20Us%20Captain

但不知道沁芝到了懂得观赏的年龄,它还会在这里吗?

对我来说,韩剧就像是一面镜子。不管你愿不愿意,
它会让你看到身体里、心里收藏、记录的
过去、回忆、悲伤和痛苦

韩剧里的人物总是背负特别多的痛苦,生命难以解释、难以接受、难以承担的各种痛苦
它让你看到那些痛苦如何因
机缘、个人的关系、迷惘、愚痴所产生

再让你看到这些种下来的,如何影响以后,他人及他人的未来

让你看到不同人面对、接受和处理痛苦的方式

告诉你、教导你如何正面、以爱去包容一切

所以我总是能共鸣。

每看一次,总也能看出些许的自己。
总是能唤起一些深藏的情绪。
然后更清楚自己。

It condenses alot of life’s lessons, challenges, dilemmas into a plot n makes u rethink about life n yourself

And what I got out of the so many I watched is

1)The importance of forgiving the past
We all have a past that is so deeply concealed we think they don’t matter

But they do n in v big ways

The past, each of ours cannot b denied. On the contrary, each of ours has to be digested, understood n appreciated, then respected

It is in these processes that we resolve our past n b able to live fully present n b as uninfluenced

2)choices
We all have a choice as to how we can live our time here
We can choose to live in the past n in its clutches, we can choose to b in pain
We can don’t forgive

We can also forgive
We can choose to focus on the present or future n not b sucked by the past
We can choose to not b stuck in the mud
We can then steer our lives into another direction

We have a choice
And it’s so wonderful we have n can make a choice

3)it’s sometimes v hard to pin point who is to blame or at fault

Really, juz like Han Do Jin who has lost her mother in a flight due to negligence of an air stewardess Cui Zhi Yuan

And unknown to Han, her current pilot Jin Yun Cheng had a part to play 7 yrs back when he accidentally dislodged the plane n caused turbulence

The unfortunate event led Han to lose her father n to have a sister born in a flight but having to bear with poor health

It’s just an example to show how the law of cause n effect can work when conditions ripen

We r all like actors in a directed play or checkers in a game

We do not have control over many things

Conditions ripen
Sparks fly between some of us n
We continue with our affinity /relationship we have started n left off somewhere in time

If we have wisdom
We will b able to make good what is not
If we have ignorance
We will deepen whatever unhappiness n in the process of this, invite more agony n pain
And one suffers more
Others too as the pain becomes locked in n reinforced

And as I watch the show
I start to feel feelings stir n the breath getting heavy

I know those r deep seated unresolved feelings
But I m glad to b given these opportunities to get in touch with my self n adjust myself along the way

And the least would b to b reminded of my trip on A380 to London in 2010

I had a panic attack n requested the stewardess to bring me to another seat in business
But she couldn’t agree n I had to take care of my panic attack in economy

I always bore a grudge for that

What if I couldn’t handle it then? Had she taken the matter too lightly?

But now I feel I could let this go now.

There’s no who to pin point at fault.its juz that the conditions were for that decision then
It’s ok now that I m well

In the drama, the air stewardess Cui met Han several years later n said this:
It’s just that luck is not on my side then.

Han couldn’t take this of course, she saw it as negligence

But what the air stewardess Cui meant was really about the law of cause n effect that we all had no control over.

Om.

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